Falling in love...

So, here we are again. As adults (or trying to).

To talk about the struggles of adulthood.

And this time we are gonna talk about falling in love.

Falling in love as adults, and the differences about fall in love when adults, and when teenagers.

Because, let's be honest, there is a huge difference.

To start we have what? The start, obvious.

When you're a teenager and find out that you are in love or falling for someone it is all roses.

It is all good, wonderful. It is amazing. One of the bests fellings you could ever fell.

When you are an adult, most of the times it takes time, and other people to tell you that you love someone. And it also takes time for you to go from denial to acceptance.

As a T (teenager) you don't worry about anything. All you want is to be happy. Nothing bad can come out of love, right?

Except it can. Lots of stuff.

We say: YOLO; I'm young; I need to live the life as its fully. Etc.

As a A (adult) You worry about everything, literally everything. You want to be happy too, sure. Everyone wants to be happy. And that is exactly why you don't want to be in love.

You've been in love before, you know how much it can hurt sometimes. You don't want to be hurt again.

As a T you have time to date. Lots and lots of time but no money at all.

As a A you don't have time. Well, you probably do, but as it is not a priority for you, you say you don't.

Your life is already complicated and messy. You have to work, to study, to clean the house, to go shopping for groceries and everything else. You need to be a good friend and hang out with them, also, you need to be a good son/daughter to your parents. You need to be a good person to everyone in your life, and that's definitely not a easy task.

So, why add to all that a job that it is to date, When the chances of it go wrong is very high? If it's a friend it's much worse because you may end up losing the friend...

And money... sometimes you have, sometimes you don't. Who knows...

As a T, if it is not correspondent, you cry a lot, it is the end of the world. You say you're never gonna love someone like that before. You feel like you are gonna die.

Once you get over, you say you don't want to love ever again. But not long after, you're in love again.

As a A, you cry for a while, (you're a human after all), You are sad. You don't stop loving someone just because they don't love you back. But you understand that it isn`t the other person’s fault, and not yours. There’s nothing you can do.

So you either get a little depressed – that’s gonna depend on how much you like the person; who the person is, a complete  strange/acquaintance or a good friend, even a best friend; how much you wanted/thought the felling was equal; and it also is going to depend on your current state of mind. – So as I was saying, you will get a little depressed for a couple of days, and then you gonna see that you cannot be like this, and you get up and raise again. Or, you won’t let yourself be like this at all, you’ll try your best to not be like this because you know it doesn’t make any sense to be crying over someone that don’t love you back, it a complete waste of time, and mind, and everything else, literally everything else.

Of course you’re not gonna get over him/her in a blink of an eye.

You will live your life, you are going to choose, you are going to decide not be that upset about it, you are going to work really hard, and soon, when you last expect, you will be over it.

Because it is true, you can decide whether you like someone or not.

After that period is passed, you are wiser (hopefully).

Each time you go through a experience like that, it take more time for you to fall for someone again.